Per - who doesn’t want to be rebuffed a second time I’ve deliberately tried to keep my interest in Kimberly in check, though I’m highly attracted to her.
She always initiates contact with me and flirts constantly.
In real life, I’ve had similar experiences: women around my physical attractiveness level are very difficult to court (they are generally uninterested), but I get a lot of unwanted incoming interest from 2s to 4s, who I am uninterested in.
On the other side, males rated women on a bell curve of normal distribution.
The inference was that women are only significantly physically attracted to the top 20% of men -- i.e., the ones who look like actors or models.
These are women around the same age as me (29) who have very little interest even in someone (based on my estimates) who is more attractive than they are.
So I’m not talking about pursuing Beautiful Women here!
She didn’t answer, so I left a message to give me a call back. When I told this story to two female friends, both were adamant that because I didn’t call or text Courtney the day after the date, she figured I have no interest and therefore wasn’t going to return a phone call from me that was four days too late.
They both said that if their husband or boyfriend had done what I did after the first date they would have written them off and ignored them altogether.So after talking to her whenever I could, I asked her out, but she told me that she had just broken up with her boyfriend of two years and that it was “too soon” for her to be going out with a new guy. Do you think she is genuinely interested in me or just playing some kind of head game?Should I wait for her to ask me out, or should I take this flirty texting as incoming attention and ask her out again? But I’ve not seen my situation discussed before, which is why I’m writing you now.I am 29 years young and met Gabriella at my church. I thought she might be perfect for me since she is incredibly attractive and, I thought, innocent. It has been six full months since I asked her out, and now Gabriella has started texting me out of the blue in a flirty, playful way but she has made no counteroffer to my original invitation to go out on a date.On Wednesday we got together for 90 minutes over dinner.